Ansonia Teacher starts LGBTQ school, first of its kind in Connecticut

Jun 12, 2023 | In The News

The first LGBTQ school is coming to Connecticut this fall. 

It was started by a woman who faced many of the same hardships as the students she hopes to protect. 

Ansonia Teacher Patty Nicolari came out in 1997. 

It was the same day that Ellen DeGeneres came out as well. 

For 15 years before that, this teacher of the year was afraid to share her true feelings. 

“Kids were suspecting that I was gay, so they would shout, ‘We have a dyke for a teacher,’ they scratched ‘lez’ in my car as big as could be,” said Nicolari. 

But once Nicolari came out she was relieved and got a lot of support. 

“I remember this one football player was walking into my health class and he stood in the hallway, and he was like ‘Miss Nic, if anyone gives you a hard time, they’re going to have to go through me,'” said Nicolari. 

Nicolari says her journey motivated her to help others. 

“I knew that I needed to change the perception of Ansonia and change the perception for students that there are gay people that they know and respect,” said Nicolari. 

Nicolari has started Proud Academy in Ansonia. 

“Best day of my life,” said Nicolari.